Crush vs. Love: Beyond the Butterflies
I remember the first time I had a crush. My heart skipped like a 100 meter runner bursting off the starting line when I saw him. I pictured us walking hand in hand. It felt like an evening stroll in…
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Infidelity: The Third Stranger
When I first began coaching married women on the principles of marriage, I realised that many women thought confronting the rival was the way to secure fidelity in their marriage. They believed that fighting the “side chic,” whether through confrontation,…
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Understanding Temperament in Love and Marriage
When I first fell in love, I was convinced attraction and common interests would see us through. We laughed at the same jokes, dreamed about the same future, and believed that was all we needed. I discovered that love is…
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Dating Actions That Never Guarantee Marriage
When I first began dating, I thought effort alone would secure love. I believed that giving more—whether through affection, resources, or service—would naturally lead to marriage. But I learned that certain actions, no matter how sincere, do not guarantee commitment.…
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The Core Cause of Relationship and Marriage Failure
My earliest steps into love were guided by the belief that relationships would always bring joy and growth. I thought affection and shared dreams were enough to carry us through. Too often, relationships that begin with promise are weighed down…
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